smack!!

The scene:  Another work baby shower

Coworker shoves other coworker's 2.5 month old baby in my arms. 


Oh, you're such a natural!  When are you going to have kids?

Um, I don't know... we'll see what happens. 

You're so lucky, you're young and can start popping out kids whenever.  It's so hard loving kids as much as I do and knowing you are not going have another one.  People say in a year, I may want to have another with <new boyfriend> but I'm 40 already, I don't think I'll really want another.  It's just so sad to think that I'll never have another baby.  9 year old son and 7 year old daughter will be it. 

Thanks.  I'll keep that in mind. 

Comments

  1. To A TMay 14, 2009 at 8:58 AM

    Ugh! Why do people never think about what they say before it pops out of their mouth?! ((HUGS))

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  2. Somewhat OrdinaryMay 14, 2009 at 8:59 AM

    I'm sorry, that sucks! Is there any way you can get out of all these work showers? It might save your sanity!

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  3. CocoMay 14, 2009 at 9:01 AM

    People are stupid...period.

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  4. MugsyMay 14, 2009 at 10:08 AM

    That sucks. Period.

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  5. AshMay 14, 2009 at 11:26 PM

    Ugh.Clearly a lot of people just don't get it.

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  6. Parenthood For MeMay 17, 2009 at 12:28 PM

    UGH is right. How insensitive can people be. What does that say about her two beautiful children. Aahhhh. Thanks for offering to donate notecards. I could use them as the prize for my next essay/blog entry contest.
    Let me know what you think

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