Well, as expected, I had a pretty crappy Christmas. Christmas eve was actually the best part. We always celebrate on Christmas eve with my mom's side of the family. That was actually fine. Christmas day, not so much. First, at my dad's side of the family lunch, I've never felt like such an outsider. Christmas at the IL's started out fine. BIL's dumb girlfriend decided to group each person's gifts in a pile, and we opened gifts one person at a time. This took forever, and was kind of annoying. For this group, we set up a gift exchange with B's brothers, so that we didn't have to buy for everyone. I did the arranging for this, and think I did a good job. I gave everyone opportunity to give input and include anyone else who was not included (didn't know if BIL's girlfriend was coming), compiled the responses, and sent out the information. After all of that, B's brother went and got something for everyone, which really set me off. Be
Happy your kidney isn't getting worse and that your little one is doing great! Hopefully the pain doesn't get worse, sorry hon.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe you may only have one kidney! I had to to a re-read to make sure that is what you really said! Well, you are certainly a special gal, but we already knew that :) I'm really happy that you are not having the shunt yet. I have had a shunt put in a few different times, and they were more painful than my stone. The doctors will tell you that it won't be, but it is. So, if you can, try to deal with the pain and let the shunt be the last resort.
ReplyDeleteI am usually told to drink lots of water. My current urologist told me to not drink it if it causes pain. However, you are pregnant and I am sure it is different for you. I was so fortunate in that I only felt a little stone at the very end, and it was low in my ureter, and I passed it. I passed the large one right when B came home from the NICU. It was always a big fear of mine-to have a stone while pregnant. So I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this.
I hope that you find some relief.
One more thing...if it is a stone, there are support groups online for pregnant women with kidney stones. Really! I looked it up. So I am sure that you could go to one of those and ask them questions.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad things aren't getting any worse. I hope that the pain gets better and things go more smoothly from here on out.
ReplyDeleteWow -- huge thing to have to go through while pregnant.
ReplyDeleteI'm back after 6 weeks away from blogging. Delivered twins at 30 and a half weeks by c-section.
Not ideal, but the boys are doing really well and should be able to come home from the NICU any time now.